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New mum gifts that are just for her

New mum gifts tend to focus on the baby, which is lovely, but the person who could really do with a little attention is the mum herself. After months of waiting and a very busy few weeks, a small gift chosen just for her says that you have noticed how hard she is working and that she still matters as a person in her own right. This guide brings together new mum gifts for her alone, from heart and mum-themed pendants to keepsakes and little treats, and every piece shown is a real product from our shop with its current price.

The best presents for a new mum are simple, easy to enjoy and need nothing from her in return. A pendant she can wear every day, a pretty brooch for her coat or a scented soap for a rare quiet moment will be appreciated far more than another thing that needs to be assembled, washed or found a place for.

Use the sections below to find something that suits her, and save a few minutes for the card, because a kind note can mean as much as the gift itself.

Heart and mum-themed pendants

A heart pendant is a classic new mum gift because the meaning is so clear. Two hearts side by side can stand for mum and baby, a lock and key heart suits a mum who feels her heart has been completely taken, and a simple rose gold heart is pretty enough to wear every day.

For something a little more playful, a koala mum and baby pendant is a sweet and gentle nod to the new arrival that she can keep wearing long after the baby days are over. A tiny heart in a bottle pendant is another charming option that works well as a small gift from a friend.

Small, neat pendants tend to be the most practical choice while she has a baby in her arms, because they are less likely to be grabbed and they sit comfortably under a cardigan or a muslin over the shoulder.

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Keepsakes to remember the early days

A keepsake gives a new mum something to hold on to from a time that often passes in a blur. A multi photo locket is a lovely idea because she can fill it with pictures of the baby, her partner or older children, and change the photographs as the family grows.

Stars and moons suit the long nights of the early weeks, and a moon and stars pendant or a little star charm can become a gentle reminder of the night feeds she will one day look back on with a smile. A feather pendant or a make a wish pendant is a softer choice for a friend who is not keen on hearts.

Keepsakes like these work especially well as a joint present from a group of friends or colleagues, because they feel considered and personal without being extravagant.

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Pretty brooches for her coat

Brooches are an underrated gift for a new mum. She may not be wearing much jewellery while the baby is tiny, but a brooch pinned to a coat, a bag or a favourite cardigan adds a bit of cheer to a walk with the pram without getting in the way.

A mother and baby sheep brooch is a gentle, slightly whimsical choice, while a heart enamel brooch or a key to my heart design says plenty without words. A pair of lovebirds or a white dove suits a mum who loves birds, and a pink daisy brooch is simply pretty.

If her first Mother's Day is coming up, a floral brooch makes a lovely early gift that she can wear on the day itself.

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Simple studs and small earrings

Long, dangling earrings and a newborn are not always the best combination, so small studs are a sensible choice for a new mum gift. Heart studs, rose designs and leaf earrings are pretty but understated, and they suit the comfortable clothes she is likely to be living in for a while.

Lovers knot earrings make a thoughtful gift from a partner, with a design that hints at the bond between you and the new family you have made. A pair of rose detail studs is a good choice from a friend who wants to give her something that feels a little special.

If she has sensitive ears, check the product description for the metal before you buy, and if you are not sure, choose a pendant or a brooch instead.

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Small treats for a tired mum

Sometimes the kindest new mum gift is a small moment of comfort. A scented soap in rose petals, lavender, melon, dewberry, oatmeal and honey or a fresh sea scent turns a quick wash into something a little more indulgent, and it is a lovely thing to add to a care package.

Treats like these are affordable, which makes them ideal as a small extra alongside a piece of jewellery, or as a gift from a colleague who wants to send her something without making a fuss. A lavender soap by the bath is a gentle reminder that she deserves a rest too.

If you are visiting in person, a small treat paired with an offer of practical help, such as a cooked meal or an hour of looking after the baby while she sleeps, is often the most welcome gift of all.

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New mum gifts that keep the focus on her

Friends and family will shower the baby with clothes, toys and blankets, so a gift for the mum herself stands out. Try to choose something that reflects who she was before the baby arrived, such as her favourite colour, a flower she loves or an animal she has always adored, so that she feels seen as herself and not only as a parent.

In the card, a few honest words go a long way. Tell her she is doing well, that you are proud of her and that you are there if she needs anything. Avoid advice unless she has asked for it, and keep the message about her rather than the baby.

If you are sending a gift from further away, we offer free UK delivery on orders of £30 or more, so a pendant and a small treat together can make a thoughtful parcel. For more ideas for the women in your life, take a look at our gifts under £10 for her.

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FAQs

What is a good gift for a new mum rather than the baby?

Something just for her, such as a heart pendant, a pretty brooch or a scented soap. Choose a design that reflects her own tastes so she feels thought of as herself.

Is jewellery a good new mum gift?

Yes, particularly small pieces such as pendants, studs and brooches that are easy to wear with a baby in her arms. A photo locket also makes a lovely keepsake of the early days.

How much should I spend on a new mum gift?

There is no right amount. A small, thoughtful gift and a kind card often mean more than something expensive, and most of our pieces are priced under £10.

When should I give a gift to a new mum?

Any time in the first few weeks is lovely, and a gift that arrives a little later, once the first rush of visitors has passed, can feel especially welcome.

What should I write in a card for a new mum?

Keep it warm and simple. Tell her she is doing a wonderful job, that you are thinking of her and that you are there if she needs anything.